Hubby works I'm a SAHM -whose money is it? (might be long)
Okay ladies I need some feedback. I am a SAHM to my DD who will be 3 yrs. old in two weeks. I had lost my job right before I got pregnant and once we found out I was pregnant and had our DD I just stayed home to take care of her. Which I love this job more than any job I ever had.
My husband works and has always worked since we've been together (4 years married 2 years). He would always joke that he pays for all the bills and everything. We are now currently purchasing our first home in two weeks and I feel like it's not mine and can't fully be happy. He says he jokes and I can't take a joke but I feel like it's not my house it's his. Because I'm not working and we owe money in credit cards (some in my name some in his) I couldn't appear on the mortgage so that doesn't help feeling like it's not mine. Once we close and are settled he will have to update the deed and add my name. But what if he really isn't joking and he does feel it's his money and home.
Those SAHM's who DH/SO works do you feel like it's their money or both your money? Does your DH/SO joke that he pays for everything? I am just being too sensitive?