My fiance has not told his parents that we are engaged. Its has been a month. help
My fiance has been together for a couple of years. We had one break up for 3months. He came back to me to tell me how much he is in love with me and want to marry me. I had made him hung out with me for four months before we got engaged. He was married before and divorce about 10 years ago. His son is 13 and he is a full time father. I have a 3years old son full time too. We did went through hell and heaven. What I dont understand is that even though he had already talked to his parents about getting married again and his mother has a great disapproval since his first marriage was a failure. I know that his father does accept me but i am not sure how he feels about us getting marry. He is 35 and I am 27. I was never married before and expected a happy or exciting planning for our wedding. But had a buzz killed, when a couple of places that i had checked out. He didnt liked it, either it was to far or he didn't like the location. Before the engagement, he was always talking about our future together and goals. But recently he seem to have shut down. He is a project manager at the bp refinery. He had told me that we are cover financially but then complains about not having money. His parent had upset him on saturday, i dont know if he is hiding info from me. I do feel like he is. He said the reason why he didnt tell his parent is because they will ruin something that should be happy moment. So, he rather for them to figure it himself. I shouldnt worry about it, that he has it under control.