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XXX question. AboutBJs

Posted by on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:31 PM
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How do you do it? I've tried I hate it. My mouth gets sore(as in tired)!!No to mention the taste. Anyway, Im really trying for my Hubby. Give me your tips!!!

Love Always,

Angel

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by on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:31 PM
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ittyprincess604
by on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:37 PM
Lol sorry can't help I'm in the same boat!
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lillybug222
by Silver Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:38 PM
I will do it for 5-10 minutes. Don't take him all the way in. Use your hands to help. I don't ever let him finish in my mouth. BJ's = foreplay for us.
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ShannaBee
by on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:43 PM

When you get tired, try licking instead or use hand motions while giving yourself a break.

I do not swallow.

aimhawk
by Bronze Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:44 PM

You do not have to continuously suck. You do not have to take the full package in your mouth. You can also open your mouth and jack him off on your lips/tongue. You do not have to swallow/ The taste depends a lot on what he eats and things like that. When DH drinks beer or eats bitter type things his gunk is bitter, but DH loves sweets so his gunk is very tolerable.

beaugrl0824
by Bronze Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:47 PM
How to Give Head To suck a good dick you’ve got to start with a nice wet, wet mouth. If you’re like a pothead with cotton mouth, consider using the cool glass of ice water trick. When you drink a bit it will makeyourpalate wetand the cold sensation feels good on their meat stick. Also ladies, if you deep throat him to the point of gagging, thegagging creates lots of saliva! Just a thought.

Get it Really Wet Now that you have a nice wet mouth, get all that wetness all over his junk – and I mean all of it! Lick up and down his shaft like it’s a melting scoop of mint chip to help get him hard. Lick all over, again, I mean all over his sack and lick behind his sack. Some of you guys and gals may not be open to that area – the taint, choad, bonch, gooch, perineum – but if can get over your “near the asshole” fear, you’ll open the door to a whole new level of enjoyment. So ladies, as I was saying, hit up the area behind his balls and then once his sack is nice and wet, stay here. The phrase “mind the stepchildren” comes into play here.

Tea Bagging To give a successful blowjob, you’ve got to tea bag him! While stroking his shaft, gently suck on his sack until the nut pops in your mouth. Once his ball is in your mouth, swirl your tongue all around it and play with it in your mouth. Go back and forth popping each nut into your mouth, going back every now and again to licking the whole sack area. I encourage starting your BJ journey here and spending a bit of time with the boys to help boost his arousal before you start bobbing (the part where you’re most likely hurting your jaw). It’s a huge erogenous zone for him and nice head start to achieving the load-blow for you.

Bobbing The main and most important part of a blowjob is plain and simply the cock sucking. You’re lack of skill here can make or break the hummer so pay attention. Again you need to remember to keep it very wet, the wetter the better to keep everything gliding smoothly and ultimately avoiding dry rubbing. Next it’s imperativethatyou maintain a barrier with your lips ensuring the teeth and the dick never meet. It’s sad, all of the horror stories I’ve heard of gaps in teeth and snaggle tooths cutting up guy’s shlongs. So don’t get sloppy, ladies! Cup your lips over your teeth so your lips are the only things ever hitting the surface! Once you’ve got a wet, teeth protected mouth you are ready to chicken head that shit.

With your mouth around his unit, you want to slide your mouth up and down continuously using a nice medium suction. You always want to pay attention to his reaction to gaugewhat helikesbest,soifyou start off with a medium suction, suck a little bit harder and see if you get a moan or a pelvic jerk to let you know you’ve reached a good suction. Keep in mind bobbing is the best move to use in order to achieve orgasm, so it’s really important that you do your best not to stop and break your rhythm and loose your progress. When you stop bobbing he starts to lose all that momentum you worked on that was getting him closer to his climax. So if you must stop bobbing, remember to at least go back to the balls or give him a little hand job – just don’t keep your mouth off him too long.

Tongue Action As you suck, your tongue should be doing something as well. A nice firm, flat tongue on the base of his penis is always good and helps make your mouth feel a lot like a vag – which is a good thing. But moving your tongue in a zig-zag formation feelsgood too, and when you sliding towards the top of the head, licktheV part (frenulum) on the underside of this head for a nice little tickle.

Use Your Hands While you are bobbing, you must do something with your free hands! I wrap my right hand around his unit, specifically my thumb on the bottom and my pointer and middlefinger on top and have them follow my mouth up and down, up and down. It slides in the same rhythm of my mouth as it’s giving a nice little hand job to the base as I cover as much of the top as my mouth can handle. And if I’m sitting right, usually crossed leg in between his legs, I can use my left hand to cupand gently massage his sack, so I’ve got a nice erotic hodgepodge going on in his crotch region. You may think this seems likeoverkill, but I promiseit’snot.

Going for the Gold As we approach 5 minutes, I know there’s gonna be some sore jaws out there, so you can start thinking about wrapping things up. Like I said ladies, feel free to give the two minute warning “you’ve got two minutes” if you feel like you need to. Sorry dudes, but I want to make sure you finish, so at least you are getting a warning instead of a girl that gives up – which some do! So ladies, as you go for the gold you should pick up the pace! Your bobbing should be faster and your suction a bit harder too. The hand on his shaft should also move faster and grip a bit harder; but remember your hand job should slide on the skin instead of pulling the skin up and down. You should be drooling uncontrollably at this point.

As you are violently sucking him off, I really recommend simultaneously massaging his choad/taint/etc. with your fingertips to get him to come super quickly – like, really recommend it. Massaging the taint is essentially massaging his G-spot and the taint is easiest point of access. The other option is going up his a-hole about 2 inches and looking for a small nut to massage. If you happen to have a small vibrator, like a Bullet, you can wrap your hand around it and hold it in his choad area so he gets a nice vibration. Put it directly on hischoad ifhecan handlethe full throttle. It will either feel amazing or homo-like to him, so it’s up to you two to try it out. If he allows you to do this, you better start thinking about what you want to do with his load because it’s coming soon.

In your last few minutes of cock sucking, I always recommend going the extra mile, doing anything you can to drive him even more crazy. Definitely open your mouth a little wider and jam as much of his salami in your mouth as you can - I call this the Disappearing Dick Trick. That extra inch of meat you can stuff in your mouth will create and excellent visual and feels fuckin’ awesome. Also,a littledirtytalkisalwaysa nice boost. Since he is about to erupt, you need to figure out what you’re going to do with his load so now is the perfect time to tell him where you want it. Him hearing you say it is porn to his ears. A simple “I want you to come on my tits” is enough to get any guy to nut.

Spitting or Swallowing So we’re just about there ladies and gentlemen, and it’s time to talk about the controversial spitting, swallowing or sitting there and doing nothing. Ladies, I beg of you to step up just a little bit and not ever sit there and do nothing. If you’ve followed most of my pointers you should be very successful up to this point and you don’t want to lose your street cred’ by making him jack himself off at the end. If you don’t like to swallow, consider the second best option of having him come on you. Really, a little come on your boobies isn’t gonna hurt you, and you know, it’s said that semen is a great anti-aging agent. Really, Cleopatra used to bath in it! And if you’re just really super opposed to swallowing but still really want to leave a lasting impression, the just-as-good alternative is having him jizz on your face. Yes, degrading, I know…but a powerful closer!

Mastering the Swallow For my strong, take-one-for-the-team type ladies that swallow – good for you! You are part of the few and elite that know that an amazing blowjob ends with you swallowing his manhood. I’ve always understood that guys love it so freakin’ much, so I’ve always done it to be the best that I can be – but that’s just the perfectionist in me. Now don’t get me wrong, that shit tastes nasty, but over the years I’ve learned to master the swallow to a point that I don’t even tasteit anymore. So if the taste is the deterrent for you ladies, follow these few simple tips. As you are violently sucking him to his climax, pay attention for the signs that point to him coming. His moans get loader, he yells, “I’m gonna come,” or my cue is when the penis starts to kick. Once you feel the kick in your mouth, that means he’s about to jizz. What you want to do is stop bobbing up and down and keep the penis in the back of your mouth while your hand continues the jacking off motion; your head will bestationary. Keeping the penis to the very back of your mouth, suck his load back while not allowing the come touch any part of your tongue except the back. Once he’s done, without breathing through your nose, suck back hard as you let his peen slide out of your mouth and immediately swallow hisload likeit’sa shot. And voila! You should be golden and shouldn’t have the horrible warm Clorox experience I had back in ’96.

So there you have it. That is what you call a blowjob. That is exactly how I give a blowjob and “60% of the time it works every time.” I hope all of you guys got a boner just reading this, and I hope you ladies feel like this is something you can do! Guys, if you like what you read, feel free to send your ladies my way! For those of you ladies that are more visual learners, you can sign up for my blowjob workshop and you and a group of your lady friends can master fellatio together. Our blowjob school comes to you and we apply all of these tips using hands-on training with cucumbers (cocks) and water balloons (balls). At the party you will also learn additional tips like fun “bells and whistles” that make blowjobs more exciting, different and enjoyable. A couple of my favorite fun tricks are delicious fruit-rollups on his dinger or blowjob pop rocks – so yum. Another awesome oral sex trick is Miracle Fruit tablets that turn anything sour tasting into a sweet taste. It’s like giving futurist/scientific head where spunk tastes like candy!
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beaugrl0824
by Bronze Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:48 PM
Above text is from

http://www.siliconvalleybachelor.com/2011/07/how-do-you-give-great-blowjob-how-to-by.html
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IQuitCounting
by Bronze Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 5:53 PM

Taste can be com batted with a mint.  The best are those liquid icebreakers.  Seriously, they diminish taste and they give him a very unique interesting experience.  Won't help if you go until the end... but I never do.  Also some flavored lubes might help, but be careful... those can also have the wrong effect if the flavor isn't just right.

In all honestly I rarely give BJ's, just don't like them.  I have to be in a very specific mood to be down for that.

LilTymomma
by Member on Jul. 17, 2012 at 7:51 PM

wow!!! Seems like a guy wrote it.lol


Quoting beaugrl0824:

Above text is from

http://www.siliconvalleybachelor.com/2011/07/how-do-you-give-great-blowjob-how-to-by.html


Love Always,

Angel

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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Jul. 17, 2012 at 7:55 PM

 You can use your hands, lick, suck just the head, have him move and you can keep your mouth still (face f**king) ....just a few ideas

Gina1109
by on Jul. 17, 2012 at 7:57 PM
Go join the " in the bedroom" group.... Those women can give some good tips :)
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