Would this behavior make you wonder about your marriage?
Yesterday my husband and I got into it. He was upset about his sister who died 4 years ago of a brain tumor and I did not give him much sympathy. I did not say, oh I am sorry honey or anything because he is so unsympathetic w/ me. I was sick for like 3 months w/ shingles, GI flu w/ my kids and an asthma flare up.He says when I complain about things that I am just bitching. He works very long hours and I am w/my sons all the time. We don't give eachother sympathy because we don't get it from the other person. Well, he gives me the finger in front of our kids and I say i don't want to be intimate w/ him because he acts like that, and he says he can have sex w/other people. Things just seem to be getting worse and worse. I think I need to look for a job and daycare and start socking away money. I need advice, I feel like this marriage is peeling away at me as a person where I have nothing left of me. Any advice appreciated. K in motown