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Posted by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 6:29 PM
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What would you do if you found out that you best friend was inlove with your DH/SO?? I just recently found out that my best friend is inlove with my DH. I have talked to him about it and he has no feelings for her like that and on top of that he really doesnt like her at all. Well I found out that she has been very jealous of my DH and I's relationship since we started dating, She said she was very upset that he "picked" me instead of her and stupid crap like that. I am very upset and I feel like I cant trust her being around him with me there let alone by themselves! I have full trust in DH but no trust for her what so ever! What would you do in a situation like this???
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catrig
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 9:08 AM

I'd cut her out.

JC2223
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 9:25 AM

 BFF would become ExBFF!

anotherandree
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 9:35 AM

I would have to end the friendship.  

Queen_Sheila
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 10:16 PM
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Wow, what a whore. I'm glad you have real friends that won't stab you in the back like that, I hope she gets a taste of her own medicine some day; tyring to tear apart a family. What a stupid cunt lol

Quoting Kate009:

Oh she didnt tell it to me! She.was talking with one of my other friends through text messages and my the friends she was talking to knows how much DH and I love eachother and she has had the same thing happen to her so she came over yesterday and showed me all the texts and she was still texting her while she was with me. Once I seen the text that she wants have sex with him and plays with herself thinking about him I was done! I called her just a littlw while ago and told her that I knew about the texts and.everything she had said and I told her to kick rocks and to kiss my ass! She has been calling and texting me saying she is sorry and she cant help the way she feels. Bull shit!


Quoting Queen_Sheila:

I'm sorry to say this, but I would cut off all ties with her. It's great that he doesn't have feelings for her and that you can trust him, but he's only human and sometimes guys will go with someone simply because they know they're wanted. Same thing goes for women, we all want to feel wanted/needed.

What did she expect when she told you this? That you would step aside? LOL I had an issue with my husband's ex last year because she's miserable and knows what she gave up now that he's happy, I told him he needed to tell her to get lost or I would and I wouldn't be nice.



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Gmgej
by Michele on Jul. 25, 2012 at 10:24 PM

cut her out of your life.

waitingforbaby5
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 10:43 PM
Dont be her friend anymore ,.


Quoting Kate009:

What would you do if you found out that you best friend was inlove with your DH/SO?? I just recently found out that my best friend is inlove with my DH. I have talked to him about it and he has no feelings for her like that and on top of that he really doesnt like her at all. Well I found out that she has been very jealous of my DH and I's relationship since we started dating, She said she was very upset that he "picked" me instead of her and stupid crap like that. I am very upset and I feel like I cant trust her being around him with me there let alone by themselves! I have full trust in DH but no trust for her what so ever! What would you do in a situation like this???

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busymama777
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:10 PM

 I had that issue. My bff made a movie on my dh while I was at work. She would babysit dd for 2 hours bc mine and dhs shifts overlapped. She made a move, he freak out, I confronted her and cut her out of my life. It sucked but had to be done. It's not fair to put dh in an uncomfortable position.

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:47 PM

 My best friend was in love with my husband. She had a crush on him in high school and when I started dating him, she never mentioned it to me. Years went by and the truth came out. She did a few nasty things and the friendship was over.

Supermommyof423
by Bronze Member on Jul. 26, 2012 at 4:00 PM
I don't know what I would do but I do know that it would drive me crazy.
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thecoffeefairy
by Bronze Member on Jul. 26, 2012 at 4:03 PM
My best friend ditched me cause I started dating SO. It was heartbreaking. She met him through me, as I was considering dating.
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