I've had issues with my S/O and fb in the past, not to mention with his cell phone. Anyways recently he updated his profile and it now no longer says that he is in a relationship with me (like my profile says I am with him). I asked him about that and he said he didn't change it and he don't know how it got off there...bull shit! Well to test my suspicions I post on his wall, "Hey baby I love you"...well guess what next time he signed back in he actually deleted my comment off his page! I asked him about it and once again he said he didn't delete it, never saw the comment, and accused me of making up the post! WTF!!!! I know he's not physically cheating because he never goes anywhere but work and has his kids the few hours he's at home before I get off work. I'm not stupid, he obviously has someone on there he is talking it up to! Asshole! Thoughts, comments welcome pls.
Quoting newstepmom61811:
FB has lead to many breakups, people aren't good at covering their tracks when they stray...his FB is showing not in a relationship because there is someone he doesn't want to know about you and he deleted your post for the same reason...he wants to appear available and unattached. The real decision is, what are you going to do about it? That only you can decide.
Oh trust me I know this....I demanded that he add me back to being "in a relationship" and until he does I will keep posting I love you's to his wall.
Quoting tomkat:
Quoting newstepmom61811:
FB has lead to many breakups, people aren't good at covering their tracks when they stray...his FB is showing not in a relationship because there is someone he doesn't want to know about you and he deleted your post for the same reason...he wants to appear available and unattached. The real decision is, what are you going to do about it? That only you can decide.
Oh trust me I know this....I demanded that he add me back to being "in a relationship" and until he does I will keep posting I love you's to his wall.
Quoting sheltons06:
Ask for his password and his logon info, if he gives it to you and lets you change it, then you know everyhing it ok. While you are in there, do a little investigating as well :) If he refuses to give you the info, you know there is a BIG problem!!!
I know he won't give me the info...I've been through this with him before, but I know he hasn't been talking to anyone else until recently because I check his cell records and he just reactivated his fb account. I'm not a complete push over for sure. I have no problem speaking my mind and asking/demanding what I need to feel comfortable in the relationship. I do love him and sometimes it's easier to ignore this shit.
Quoting tifbrown:
You are just dating? For me it would be time to walk away. I never put up with bull shit game playing when I was dating. I wanted the open, honest truth or I wasn't in it.
It's a little more complicated than that. Although we are not married, we have been living together as a married couple would for almost 2 years and I have become "stepmom" to his daughters.
fb is only a problem when the person using it is doing something wrong. Fb doesn't cause someone to cheat, the cheater made that choice themselves.
Quoting AngelicMommy_72:
I think facebook is the devil in relationships of all sorts. Friendships, families, coworkers... Yeah. Dgmw, I love me some fb, it's just a good way to screw up things.
Quoting superm0m877:fb is only a problem when the person using it is doing something wrong. Fb doesn't cause someone to cheat, the cheater made that choice themselves.
Quoting AngelicMommy_72:
I think facebook is the devil in relationships of all sorts. Friendships, families, coworkers... Yeah. Dgmw, I love me some fb, it's just a good way to screw up things.
Quoting tomkat:
Quoting tifbrown:
You are just dating? For me it would be time to walk away. I never put up with bull shit game playing when I was dating. I wanted the open, honest truth or I wasn't in it.
It's a little more complicated than that. Although we are not married, we have been living together as a married couple would for almost 2 years and I have become "stepmom" to his daughters.
Quoting newstepmom61811:
Is it worth it though if you know he's looking elsewhere? Why try to embarrass him back? Why not find someone better that's just plain nuts for you without any playing around, where you don't have to manipulate him back, if you even can...why do you still want this guy?
Quoting tomkat:
Quoting newstepmom61811:
FB has lead to many breakups, people aren't good at covering their tracks when they stray...his FB is showing not in a relationship because there is someone he doesn't want to know about you and he deleted your post for the same reason...he wants to appear available and unattached. The real decision is, what are you going to do about it? That only you can decide.
Oh trust me I know this....I demanded that he add me back to being "in a relationship" and until he does I will keep posting I love you's to his wall.
Quoting CandiceDanielle:
If his name is still on yours,then yours has got to be on his. Fb has been acting up a lot lately for myself and almost everyone in my friend's list.
What is your best......
- tomkat
on Jul. 24, 2012 at 9:42 AM