Why in the world do they treat DH like this!!!!!! EDIT IN RED
So DH just got laid off from his job friday. Well since then he has been doing what he should be and trying to find another job. Really any job he doesn't care. Well today we goes over to his grand parents to see his mother (yes she still lives at home with her mother and stepfather) (no it is not to help them) . Any who well like I was saying he goes over there with out me bc I am not allowed over there. Long story. So they have not seen our daughter in over two years. So when he gets over there to see his family they start in on him saying that he is lazy and is not even looking for a job. His family has ALWAYS treated him like shit ( one of the reasons I am not allowed over there is bc I stood up for him). I don't understand how a mother or grandmother can treat their family the way they are. He didn't ask them for any thing. I just don't see how they think it is ok. OK Sorry rant over
DH told me last night that He was NOT going back over there. I have asked him a million times why doesn't he stand up for his self. And he always tells me bc he has and it didn't do any good. The way they are is one day they will be horrible to you and then the next day they don't understand why you don't wanna have any thing to do with them. They know that as long as they are treating him like this they will not see our daughter. She doesn't even know her family on his mothers side. She thinks her step grandmother is her nana. They just don't care. Which is fine by me they are crazy anyway. So he said as of last night he is done and I believe he has really had enough.