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3some then he cheated?or she cheated?

Posted by on Jul. 27, 2012 at 8:58 PM
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Have u ever had a 3 some and it ended badly? Like trust issues, divorce or cheating? Or jus continue great???
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Mommy2JAJ
by Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 8:48 AM



Quoting purple899:

Never had one and I am never going to find out

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BrookieCookie1
by Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 8:59 AM

 In my first marriage, yes, and no, it didn't cause there to be any issues. However, there were so many issues to begin with, i don't think it would have made a difference either way. I've known plenty of couples that it caused there to be problems and divorces with, though. I always say that if i were going to do it again, I'd most likely hire a professional girl.

theresaphilly
by Bronze Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 9:16 AM


Quoting purple899:

Never had one and I am never going to find out


Mommy2BeAmy
by Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 9:17 AM
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I'd never have one and if you're married that is already considered cheating because your breaking a vow with your spouse to sexually pleasure someone outside your marital contract, even if you don't consider it.


MomToovey
by Marianne on Jul. 28, 2012 at 9:31 AM

 I did have one when I was very young and stupid - all 3 of us were single though, so there was nothing to end. However, it wasn't for me and I'd never do it again, especially not with my super-satisfying-as-it-is husband.

Crazy_Mom69
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:28 AM

 Never has lead to anything like that.

Gmgej
by Michele on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:29 AM


Quoting purple899:

Never had one and I am never going to find out


crysjuls
by Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:50 AM
We didnt go all the way, but there are no trust issues at all.
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StrawberryJam12
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:21 PM
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Quoting Mommy2BeAmy:

I'd never have one and if you're married that is already considered cheating because your breaking a vow with your spouse to sexually pleasure someone outside your marital contract, even if you don't consider it.

 


MrsImperfect
by Bronze Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:23 PM
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No its not cheating is doing it behind someones back if you both participate how is that cheating

Quoting Mommy2BeAmy:

I'd never have one and if you're married that is already considered cheating because your breaking a vow with your spouse to sexually pleasure someone outside your marital contract, even if you don't consider it.


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