I went away this weekend for my cousins wedding and I got a voicemail from a girl I honestly can not stand. She is very fake, thinks she is amazing because boys drool over her and I never trusted her around hubby as she always needs male attention. As I was getting up to leave for the airport, I saw there was a voicemail from a random number and it was her saying we needed to talk right away and she wanted to do coffee in the morning. I don't know why- but I have a bad feeling about it. I have a feeling that she will tell me she ran into my hubby at the bars and something happened or something like that. Now I will follow this up with the fact that I have never doubted him before, but there is a feeling inside me and I really hope it is wrong. I am 12 weeks pregnant and love him to bits- I pray I am wrong.
Well I spoke to both of them on the phone and my feeling was semi true- he has been texting her when he was drinking and she didn't know who it was until she asked my friend to look through her contacts- where his number is.
He claims that it was a stupid joke that he thought was funny. Until now.
I am not looking for advice- as I feel I need to do what feels right to me- and although I have no clue what that is right now- I'll figure it out. As any woman here would do.
I am staying strong and coping calmly because I need to take care of my lil bean and it's not worth risking his or her health.
Just pray that I do what is right and that I can find the correct path for my family.
on Jul. 29, 2012 at 8:16 AM