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Posted by on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:12 PM
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some of the things your SO does that make you smile and or appreciate him a lil more than before...

I was just thinking... my DH watches my movies and shows... this man watched the movie Dear John with me many times... MANY times... and can tell you the whole movie now... haha...

Teen mom [and the sequels] yeah, he watched them with me too... and actually talks to me about the girls and babies and things...

Cooking... he always makes sure he cooks things I will eat... and the kids will eat also... hes an amazing cook... absolutely amazing... he makes shrimp fettucini alredo [well... we use small shells instead of the fettucini, but the same concept] and can make the sauce home made and YUMMMMMMY...

he makes spaghetti and meatballs and coming from a woman who wouldnt eat it before ever... I can eat like 3 bowls of it and still think about getting more...

with the kids when he is home [he works 3rd shift] he will wake up with them and get my youngest changed and both of them fed breakfast... and 9 times out of 10 he will wake me up to eat something he has cooked...

He tells me he loves me and I am beautiful every day... many times, and makes me feel like I am worth something to him... and special to him ALL the time...

These are just a few things... there are many more that I cant think of... but what do you ladies have for amazing men in your lives? tell me the special things they do for you? :-)

Posted by on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:12 PM
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fostermomoftwo
by on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:16 PM
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if he knows im tired at all or dont feel good he makes me lay down and caters to me hand and foot.

He is compeletly selfless, he always puts me first

He told me this morning im sooo in love with you while i was just being me.

He gave me foot massage the other day for no reason w/o me asking, it was his little surprise.

He made me really good spehgetti and garlic bread for dinner the other night, was so proud of himself

He treats me like a queen, never puts me down no matter how angry or pissy i can be.

ilovemykids732
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:26 PM

my DH is verrrry selfless also... he hasnt bought any new clothes in literally like 6 years... his jeans all look like they went through hell and back, I got hand me downs from my sister... so my clothes arent bad... but the kids always get new stuff... so he just goes with out for us, and I hate it... hes SOOOOO selfless though...

Quoting fostermomoftwo:

if he knows im tired at all or dont feel good he makes me lay down and caters to me hand and foot.

He is compeletly selfless, he always puts me first

He told me this morning im sooo in love with you while i was just being me.

He gave me foot massage the other day for no reason w/o me asking, it was his little surprise.

He made me really good spehgetti and garlic bread for dinner the other night, was so proud of himself

He treats me like a queen, never puts me down no matter how angry or pissy i can be.


JennPearce
by Jenn! on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:32 PM
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He just started doing this but he wakes me up before work to say "good morning beautiful",melts my heart!

He always wants to hold my hand & give me hugs, and cuddle.

He always wants to talk it out, no matter the issue, even when I try to shut it down he still reminds me that we need to communicate. I can be stubborn.

I love when he talks about the future of us. He seems happy & hopeful of our future. :)
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dingysfamily
by on Aug. 3, 2012 at 3:45 PM
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Yesterday I was asleep when he came home from work, so he didn't even come into the bedroom to empty his pockets or change his clothes, said he didn't want to take a chance on waking me ... I'd had injections in my back that morning ... he just wanted me to sleep as long as I needed to; then when I did wake up he fixed me dinner and cleaned up everything.  This morning he was real quiet so he didn't wake me either; and he called me about 8:30 to check on me.

He does all the laundry b/c of my bad back & knees & doesn't complain.

He always helps me cook, he is a fantastic cook!

He has always been extremely involved with the kids and there is no kind of childcare he won't do

He has never felt like because I was a SAHM/W that all the housework was all mine to do 24/7 .. his thought was, once he got home from work & on weekend/vacations all that became the job of both of us ... I deserved time off from my job just as much as he did from his

He always tells me he loves me, especially at the end of every phone call

He holds my hand everywhere we go and in church

He had never been afraid to show me he loves me in from of our kids

He is extremely considerate & respectful of me in all ways

He makes me laugh, all the time!! 

ilovemykids732
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 4:25 PM

BUMP!

Momof5kids84
by Lauren on Aug. 3, 2012 at 4:44 PM
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My husband goes to school and works 50-60 hrs a week to provide for us.

He tells me that he loves me several times a day.

He calls me to check on me.

He helps out.

He respects me and treats me as an equal.

He holds my hand, he cuddles with me, he kisses me a lot, and he listens.

He is loyal to me.

He values my friendship.
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JadsW
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 4:54 PM
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He leaves me little notes, sometimes, telling me that he loves me and that I'm beautiful.

He sends me flowers when he has to go away on business.

He cooks on his days off (and he's a good cook).

He lets me sleep in whenever he can.

He insists that I go out & have time to myself, on his days off, while he takes care of the boys. He usually suggests that I buy myself something nice or get a manicure while I'm out.

He texts me, during the day, just to tell me that he can't wait to see me that night.

He sets aside at least one night a week just to talk & spend time one-on-one with me with no distractions.

He sometimes does the grocery shopping just so that I don't have to.

I could go on, but I'll stop there. :) He's just pretty damn awesome. :)
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19andmomtobe
by Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 5:18 PM
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anytime im sick he always brings me home flowers and cooks dinner. he watches the baby so that i can get out of the house and do something for myself. most of all he works so hard so that i can go to college and be at home with the baby. he tells me he loves me anytime he leaves the house or even the room. he says its because if something were to happen to either of us he wants that to be the last thing he says to me :) super sweet. he does all the laundry because i never remember to.the night before last our son would not sleep so i was up all night with him.. i ended up falling asleep at like 8 am and i didnt wake up till 11.. he had taken our son into the kitchen and fed him and made me breakfast. i didnt even realize what time it was till i woke up. so sweet. im a lucky gal :)

jacobsmommy84
by Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 6:04 PM
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He helps me with everything:) we both work and we both raise the kids, both take care of the house and he even cleans:)~
I can talk to him about everything.... He's litterally my very best friend:)
We love doing anything and everything together. He loves to cuddle and I love just bein close to him!
He's the most amazing kisser!! :)~
Ugh! They give me goosebumps everytime still:)
I could go on and on
But also just wanted to say that I love this post.... It was so cute reading everyone's responses!
If Only every woman on this site had amazing husbands like we do!! I feel so truly blessed:)
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ilovemykids732
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 7:27 PM

and I mean... I totally have my faults... but he loves me for all of them... he loves me no matter what... thats another thing DH does for me... and looks like all the ladies who have posted have some pretty awesome husbands too!! :)

Quoting jacobsmommy84:

He helps me with everything:) we both work and we both raise the kids, both take care of the house and he even cleans:)~
I can talk to him about everything.... He's litterally my very best friend:)
We love doing anything and everything together. He loves to cuddle and I love just bein close to him!
He's the most amazing kisser!! :)~
Ugh! They give me goosebumps everytime still:)
I could go on and on
But also just wanted to say that I love this post.... It was so cute reading everyone's responses!
If Only every woman on this site had amazing husbands like we do!! I feel so truly blessed:)


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