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I'm curious as to what 'rule(s)' you and your Husband set when you got married.

Ours is:

NEVER say you want a divorce no matter how mad you are unless you mean it.


by on Aug. 4, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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cupcake2819
by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 8:52 AM

We don't have any specific rules like that.  If we had yours, DH would say divorce just out of spite.  When it is mad, he says things he doesn't mean.  Thankfully, though...we don't get mad at each other very often at all  :-)

polyhymia
by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 8:57 AM

no "d" word, no cheating :)

lorelei10
by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 10:14 AM
Well, at first we didn't have any and as time went we set some
1 never spend more than 10$ without telling the other to avoid overdraft
2 no porn ( we are newly religious and we both used to watch it)
3 we always end a fight with a hug and both apologise
4 never go to bed angry
5 always be honest about where we go and who with

We've been great lately :)
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MrS.GiFFord
by Member on Aug. 6, 2012 at 10:16 AM
No rules really...just respect.
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Susie140
by Silver Member on Aug. 6, 2012 at 8:33 PM


Quoting prettygirl326:

 got a lot of them...no stip clubs, preferrably no porn either, but if i don't feel like having sex with you-have at it. no chat lines, no lieing, no cheating, no calling or associating with a past love, etc. just off the top of my head. controlling, maybe, but thesea are things that husband shouldn't do (or wives) and you have many that do it and bring a world of issues through the door!

SAME HERE, TO BAD HE BROKE EVERY ONE OF THEM

LOVES67
by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 9:23 PM

 really no rules, so far no big problems, we get mad, say thing that we shouldn't , But yeah no rules..

deedoll
by on Aug. 7, 2012 at 10:16 AM

We have no rules, and we have trust so hanging out with a friend of the opposite sex is not an issue, we know how rumors start, and how they grow. but i also know what my heart tells me which is I never have to worry about that and he knows it as well, I wish that more couples these days could have the trust respect and love that we have for each other, because it makes life worth living everyday. with no fear of divorce because I had a cup of coffee with a male friend, I never lie, and neither does he. Its just true love in my opinion that gives you all of the things a relationship needs to last forever.

 

nanasprozac
by on Aug. 7, 2012 at 4:29 PM

 we want to get divorced...and then me marry a very rich very old guy and then keep my previous husband as my playtoy and then get re-married when my rich guy passes.............thats the only time divorce is ever discussed...we married forever...we share all things equally ..we have never went to bed angry after being together 25 years...we have maybe 1 major fight/argument once a year and its usually over something stupid lol ...right now I am in poor health and he has to take care of me alot and he does that with no regrets except wishing I wasnt in so much pain...I think our marriage works...dont you?

Due to our finacial situation the light at the end of our tunnel is shut off till further notice
Mamazee73
by on Jan. 19, 2013 at 12:23 PM

Yeah, the shirt was one of too many things... More the thing i could call her on less awkwardly than, say, her horning in on our date night.  I thought i had been too quiet about things that bothered me (at the time, she was at my house for five days , i thought it would be two, she brought my recently divorced mom who at five weeks mocked me for being sad about it, and whom i had asked her not to bring, there were other things re the reason she was there, and she had ditched me with my mom who i did not want to be around and cornered my husband upstairs for over an hour.  So, more to it.  But when i asked her to wear one of my shirts instead, she was so mad, and txted me after she went home, that although i hadn't used any angry words, i *looked* angry and it wasn't okay to ask her not to wear whatever she wanted of my husband's.  When i was dating him, i even set her up with his cousin, bcz she wanted "someone like him"....

Hottmomma607
by Trica on Jan. 19, 2013 at 6:51 PM
No rules! Except no need to bring uo divorce!
Making sure its us against tge world! :-)
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