I've been married less than a year and I'm already starting to hate married life. I have a DD who is 5 months old and my husband hardly helps with her. He works 10 -12 hours a day so I really don't expect too much from him on the weekdays.... I'm not unreasonable like that. But even on the weekends he doesn't want to do too much with her. He goes on and on about how he loves her and blah blah but he won't even play with her for more than an hour. And if he does, then he has to take her to his mothers house, I assume so that she can take care of her....
I cook, I clean. I do his laundry, I make the bed. I even take care of the garbange and recycleing. Yeserday I was sick...actually sick and I asked him to help me with the baby and he took a nap.
He never wants to go out. Even with her he's lazy to go for a stroll or take her to the mall. On the weekends when we could be spending time together he goes and plays video games and leaves me to take care of the baby and entertain myself.
We basically can't have a conversation where I have an opinion. He seems to just want to start shit, so if i say anything at all to add to the conversation he will get in my face and I walk away. I have started to say to him "why do you even talk to me, if you just want me to nod my head - don't talk to me if you don't want me to have an opinion". Not the most productive thing to say I know..... but I'm at my wits end
I can't talk to the man about how I feel...whenever I voice my concerns he gets mad and me and we argue. I'm there crying my heart out and he gets pissed - t's fucking pointless...Im too tired to argue. I started sleeping in the Nursery because I am too annoyed to fuck him.
We haven't had sex in about 5 days which is HUGE for us.
I'm really depressed about this.....gah. Just my rant thanks for reading.