Do you think it's ok for your dh to go to a club by himself?
I am so freakin pissed right now! WTF.
DH is at work 5 hours away. He works on an oil rig with 12 hour shifts. He got off work at 7pm and decided to go to a club with one of his co-workers at 10:30pm. i'm okay with him going out to a BAR with his friends to drink and play pool whatever. but, in my eyes, a club is a totally different scene. Either you go to the club with your partner or when you are single. We are married but can't afford rings. so he doesn't wear one. i'm so pissed b/c it's 2:30am and he has to be at work at 6am. WTF. why the fu** does he have to be out there that late at a fu**in club? am i over reacting? we are like texting back and forth. but mainly me b/c i'm like bitching him out. finally he answers my call and i hear music in the background and he tries to reassure me that im his only one and he knows he has two kids and one on the way bla bla bla!
He stays up there 5 hrs away for a whole week. the job provides him a bunk house to stay in. then he is off a week and comes home. i usually don't have a problem with him going out, he deserves to go out with his buddy b/c he works hard for his family. but i'm not okay with him going to a CLUB.
Okay, so do you think it's okay for your man to go to a club with his buddies with out you? i feel like he acts single when he goes out. He never takes me out, we never go on dates, i have to beg for it. so yeah, i feel neglected in that department. especially since he likes to go out with his buddies. but when he is home he complains about working all the time, never wants to go anywhere and do anything with me and the kids. or just me. so my feelings are hurt also.