If you had a child before you met your current husband..
Should you be allowed to talk to your ex about the child you had together???
I ask because I had a child with my ex BEFORE I ever even met my husband. And while my husband and I were just dating, he made a HUGE deal about me talking to my ex. I understand now because at the time, my ex was manipulating me and it hindered my relationship with my boyfriend. But now I have realized my mistakes and it isn't like that anymore.
I have been married to my husband for over a year and my ex has custody of our child. But any time I text my ex about our son, my husband gets VERY upset with me. (I've been avoiding it, and talking to my mom about my son instead because she gets to visit him) but that isn't often at all.
I decided to text my ex today and he was kind enough to send me a picture of my son today because I messaged him and I want to do this more often so I'll get to know more about how my son is growing up, but I'm afraid of what my husband will think.
Any advice? And please no bashing. I simply decided my ex would raise my son because he has more money and more family with him and my son will have a life better than I could provide when it comes to the financial stuff.