I am so in love with my dh though. And thankfully that love is 100% reciprocated. It was not with my ex.
OMG yes. My 1st love was someone that I'm still very good friends with; the Vietnam War got in the way of us, among a misunderstand. I'm just extremely grateful though we have been able to maintain such a wonderful friendship. Had I not met my current dh, I firmly believe (as does this man) that he & I would be together now. But God knew what he was doing. We met & fell in love when I was 13 & he was 15; we broke up a couple of times but kept getting back together until the war finally did us in and I met dh #1.
My 1st dh ... I loved him, but I realized too late I wasn't really 'in love' with him & because of the guy mentioned above I did know the difference. I knew I shouldn't gone through with the wedding, but was just to afraid to call it off. So I married him and tried desarately to make the marriage work, for 14 1/2 years, before we called it quits; he wasn't really 'in love' with me either.
As for dh #2 - my current husband - I am so very much in love with him. We both learned a lot from our 1st marriages. This marriage is extremely happy and successful.
Okay, so I got off and went further than just a yes or no answer!! I do that.
I am right now...Which is why i have Dave and Irish...Humans are amazing creatures with the ability to love many..whether that is at one time or thru out thier lives...IMHO lol


David and Irish 

- 2lilmamas
on Aug. 10, 2012 at 1:11 PM