Me and BF have been together for 6 years, we have a beautiful 1 year old. I have epilepsy and while I'm BFing I'm off my meds so living on our own while he works 50+ hours a week is dangerous for me and DS so we live with my mom. She has cancer so we help each other through out the day (I have a 4yr old and 1yr old sibling).
Lately all me and BF have been doing is fighting.. Even to the point were we both agreed we no longer want to get married but want to work things out. It's gotten to the point where he took more hours and even hangs out after work for 2 more hours than he has to because he doesn't want to come home... He hates that we can't live alone and now that I agreed he said no and said that he feels like he's settling because we stay with my mom (who he doesn't care for because of past issues) I just don't know what to do anymore. He says he loves me still and can't picture himself without me but I now I'm wondering if it's because he really loves me or stays because that's all he knows ( we've been together since we were 15). I know this is more of a vent but please any advice would be great..
on Aug. 11, 2012 at 5:07 AM