Don't judge me... but I'm heading into my 3rd marriage. My first lasted less than a year (he was abusive), my 2nd lasted 7 years and we have a daughter together and after being divorced for three years, I met an amazing amazing amazing man who also has a daughter whom he has full custody of. Anywho, we're getting married next summer and I don't want a "regular" wedding, just something simple. But I have NO IDEAS about what to do. What did you all do?