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My DH and I married young. He was 19, I was still 18, and a month later, we found out I was pregnant. Of course, the two of us are happy and we really do love each other.
Now, though, almost two years later, my family, mostly my mom and my mawmaw, (my mom's mom) are saying that I made a mistake marrying so young. WTF? They were just fine with it when we got married, but NOW, after two years, it's a MISTAKE?
First off, we were living with his dad, and FIL told us we had to be married within a two-month time span, or I would have to leave. Reason: FIL was up for vote on the deacons board of his church, and couldn't have his son's girlfriend living in the house and not be married. To keep him from kicking me to the curb, DH agreed to us getting married.
Secondly, I DON 'T WANT TO HEAR IT!!!!! My paternal grandmother was married at 15, so I think I'm doing pretty good compared to her! Why is it such a problem now? I mean, I can't be the only one who got married a few days before their 19th birthday.
Did I really make a big mistake, or are they just being bitches?