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Why won't he grow up??.....

Posted by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 1:10 AM
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So my ex DF called and left a message. He said to call him. So I did. We talked for a little bit then when I brought up my miscarriage in March he hung up on me. Now he wont talk to me. His bitch of a GF called me a whore first thing when she picked up the phone. I just want to settle things like adults but he is being a child. I even told him that he could come here if that's what it took. I hate when "men" act like boys.
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maidjillian
by Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 2:19 AM
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If you don't want to deal with them, then don't.  When the "grown ups" in my life want to act like children, I don't talk to them.  If he hung up on me, I would not have bothered to call him back. 

xxMocahFrappxx
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 2:21 AM
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Quoting maidjillian:

If you don't want to deal with them, then don't.  When the "grown ups" in my life want to act like children, I don't talk to them.  If he hung up on me, I would not have bothered to call him back. 

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nicole2884
by Silver Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 7:45 AM
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guess he just proved yet again why he is a EX

Babujai
by Bronze Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 7:48 AM
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Most men don't grow up until they have to. As long as there's some woman willing to put up with his childishness that's how he'll stay.
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tth328
by Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 7:51 AM
That was extremely rude to hang up when you're talking about something so sensitive and painful. He would not hear from me again.
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CameronsMommy23
by Amber on Aug. 19, 2012 at 8:23 AM
Forget him. Exes are exes for a reason. *hugs*
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1984Grad
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:40 AM

  Good luck with the "growing up" thing with him.

  Why is he an ex?

  Why do you even want to talk to him?

  When my husband acts like a child I have 2 options  1) treat him like another one of the children  2) don't bother with him for a while til he wants to try the adult thing again. (This may go on for a week or 2)  Just don't let it wear you down.

sew4fun
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 12:07 PM

I would just forget about him. He sounds like a jerk and he is an Ex for a reason

thumphrey
by Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 3:12 PM
Unless you have kids with him then just say NO to conversations with him.
blondieof3kids
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 3:31 PM

Don't waste your time trying to figure a man like him or should a say "a child" like him, you have better things to do w/your time and life than to try to figure him out because hun, you may never and look at all the time you wasted.........

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