So, DH is some ticked with me and will not tell me why or what I did. He hasn't spoken to me since a week ago Sunday and is sleeping in his "doghouse" in the basement. (He made this shrine)
If this is like other times (although I'm not counting on it) he will one night come to our bedroom and want me to either come down to his room or come back to bed. I know that when he does it is for one thing only and it will be "all okay" for a day or two and then he will either get angry again because he wants to talk about what made him angry in the first place or find something else to get angry about.
So, am I being rude to tell him that we will not have sex until things are talked through and we make some headway and that he can sleep in the basement by himself until this happens?
I am trying to protect myself and I'm tired of "grudge sex". Or thinking that everything is okay only to find out that nothing has changed except that he was hungry for sex and then goes back to the way things were.