DH lost his job lastnight... I am the only one working... we have a 1300 mortgage... I make about 1200 a month... this sucks SO much... he is going to file for unemployment next week... and we will apply for food stamps and state funded insurance... we both have worked for a while... so the help is ok... He will be home with the kids now... and cooking and cleaning... and I will help... but as a SAHD most of this stuff should get done... I hope because I am looking into picking up another job... and I can not work 2 jobs AND cook and clean all the time!!
so I guess this is the ultimate test if our marriage can work... o.0;; if we are strong enough as a married couple to handle this than I guess we can handle anything...
Well, he could but than we would spend the same amount he makes in child care... I am going to end up picking up a second job... I have to... I know of a few things I can do... my friends grandmother needs help around her house... and is paranoid about people she doesnt trust in her home... but knows me... I will make about $250 a week... which isnt MUCH... but its enough...
Quoting ajrjj05:why can't he look for another job?! why did he lose his job?! your screwed with a house payment like that your going to need HELP! and yes your right you deserve alittle state aid cause your family works for it :)
Quoting ilovemykids732:Well, he could but than we would spend the same amount he makes in child care... I am going to end up picking up a second job... I have to... I know of a few things I can do... my friends grandmother needs help around her house... and is paranoid about people she doesnt trust in her home... but knows me... I will make about $250 a week... which isnt MUCH... but its enough...
Quoting ajrjj05:why can't he look for another job?! why did he lose his job?! your screwed with a house payment like that your going to need HELP! and yes your right you deserve alittle state aid cause your family works for it :)
Quoting ilovemykids732:Well, he could but than we would spend the same amount he makes in child care... I am going to end up picking up a second job... I have to... I know of a few things I can do... my friends grandmother needs help around her house... and is paranoid about people she doesnt trust in her home... but knows me... I will make about $250 a week... which isnt MUCH... but its enough...
Quoting ajrjj05:why can't he look for another job?! why did he lose his job?! your screwed with a house payment like that your going to need HELP! and yes your right you deserve alittle state aid cause your family works for it :)
not sure why it is bothering me but
- ilovemykids732
on Aug. 25, 2012 at 1:01 PM