first heres a little back ground me and my husband have been together for 13 yrs and have had 4 kids together. for the 6 months he has been getting on dating sites and talking to chicks i dont know and saying that he loves them and hes single and that he misses them when he has never meant any of these chicks and i have asked him to stop and told him that i feel like he's trying to replace me and that it hurts me knowing he's doing this and he says he's just playing around but he hides some of his conversations and i worry i am gonna be the only one raising my children because he wants to go with a new b^%ch. i dont know what to do. I love him very much and dont want to leave him and break up my family cause i know that would hurt my children more than it would hurt me. any advice?