Phone sex?????

[Hiddensoul]

My DH and I are very discreet about our sex life we don't talk about it to people, we never talk about it on the phone and we never display sexual gestures in public. We may be quite about it but in the room we are flippin animals. My DH works 1600+ miles away and is gone anywhere from 2 to 8 weeks at a time and is only home for 2wks at a time.

Today (while at work) out of no where my DH texts me and tells me he needs me. I said I was sorry but I'm home he is at work so tell me what wrong and I will try and support you. Then he just drops that bomb… sex this, sex that things he would do to me, he wanted pics, vedios all kinds of crazy stuff then his texts turned to pics of him???

Now I'm not saying its bad or anything it was kinda fun but we have never done anything like this before and we have been together for 3 years. Tonight I found out things I never knew he liked and he found out things he never knew I liked and that was just tonight we have been together 3 yrs and never knew this about each other. This was crazy but fun and very ya lol.

Do u and ur DH ever do this? Is it normal? Do you guys know everything about what each other like when it comes to sex?
It really is amazing what you will find out when you actually let your guard down and try new things!

[Fields456]

We do and we sext a lot. And yes we know everything about each other sexually from past partners to likes and diskikes, But we are. Both very open about it.

[nicole6870]

DH and I used to actually have phone sex now it's more like text phone sex lol. We've been together 13 yrs in Sept and I don't think we still know all of each others fantasies but we know the majority. Sex is fun and healthy in a marriage as long as it's between you 2 in my opinion.

[nicole6870]

Were you and DH the type to tell stories of sex w/ex's? If so, do the stories ever pop in your head and grate on your nerves?

Quoting Fields456:

We do and we sext a lot. And yes we know everything about each other sexually from past partners to likes and diskikes, But we are. Both very open about it.

[Fields456]

Quoting nicole6870:

Yes we have. I have even seen a USB full of sex photos with his ex ( I really enjoyed deleteing them dh said I could :). ). And no it doesn't ever pop into our minds. For us the past is the past But also dh and I are not jealous ppl.

[Lindalou907]

I think that's great! Good for you! My husband is way to shy and kind of a prude to do that.

[2lilmamas]

Lol yes its definately and a spontanious thing to do.

[Hiddensoul]

That's something I could never do. I don't ever want to know anything about his passed relationships. They are the past for a reason and I am the present and future. I have only asked about one relationship because she still has an active roll in his families life.

Oh and there was one time when we were updating his email we found and old IM message from a past relationship and I opened it and read it. She tried so hard to get him to have I guess computer sex with him but when she said something sexual he avoided the topic and talked about something else or ignored her.

Quoting Fields456:

We do and we sext a lot. And yes we know everything about each other sexually from past partners to likes and diskikes, But we are. Both very open about it.

[Hiddensoul]

My DH is as well that's why when he started calling and texting me like that I was so shocked! Never would I have thought he would do something like this.

Quoting Lindalou907:

I think that's great! Good for you! My husband is way to shy and kind of a prude to do that.

[createive]

no we don't, but good idea! thanks ;)

[Hiddensoul]

It's actually pretty fun and it's something new! A lot of couples I know say they do it and I always thought it was wired so I never tried it until last night.

Quoting createive:

no we don't, but good idea! thanks ;)