So dh came home from work yesterday and asked if it would be ok if he went to his friends for their birthdays. I said ok. He left about 7pm. Text him at 10ish to see when he might be home. He said he was just waiting on someone to get back then he was leaving. Text him at 11 asking if he was on his way and to let him know I set the alarm. No response. Woke up at 3am text and called, no response. 4am same thing. Tried again at six same thing. It's now 7am and no answer no text. He's never done this before but he has only ever gone out without me like one other time. He is a recovered alcoholic so hes not supposed to drink much plus he knew he had to drive home...we had a huge storm last night so I'm a little worried but I am mostly just pissed off. What would you do? He was supposed to be here this morning to sit with the kids so I could pick up my basket of produce from my co-op at 8. It's not looking good...
7:50 just talked to him cuz he finally answered. Said sorry...but no valise excuse what so ever. I am so fucking heated. Plus he an hour away so he won't make it home in time. Ugh
So he made it home about 9. He was at his friends. His friend left to take his gf home but said he would be back to give dh s ride (he had gotten pulled over on the way apparently for expired tags so he was just gonna get a ride home). His friend never came back and dh fell asleep. It still pissed me off because I feel like he should have called when it was getting late at least. He had two beers he said so he didn't want to drive.himself at all...which also pissed me off because I asked him not to drink so he could drive home if he needed to. I ripped his ass pretty good and he's been kissing mine all day. Thanks for the responses ladies. He apologized profusely so yeah, I'm still upset but it is what it is. Can't be taken back now. Just gotta move on.
on Sep. 1, 2012 at 9:10 AM