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"your HUSBAND likes me and wants to have an affair with me"

Posted by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:49 PM
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My neighbor who is married and has two little daughters come to me to say "from the first time your husband met me HE TOLD ME HE LIKES ME, AND  HE WANTS TO HAVE AN AFFAIR WITH ME" 

I called my husband to face her, and tell me if all of that was true, in front of her, and he said YES!

Time has past and my husband and I are working on saving our marriage with professional and church leaders help. 

I want to thank you all for being somewhere/somehow here for me!

Any new advices are welcomed! 

by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:49 PM
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PinkHairMAMA
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:51 PM
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I would be packing his shit and calling a lawyer!!
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3boysngirl
by Member on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:52 PM
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I couldn't forgive him trust is very important and now u don't have that I'm sorry
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jjolsen77
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:54 PM
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im sory he is an asshole,no advice I can give you, he probably has cheated before, so it is your call

SareyF
by Sarah on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:54 PM
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My husband would be finding a new place to live.
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laurenb1
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:56 PM
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If that were me I'd be getting a divorce
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Monsita
by Silver Member on Sep. 2, 2012 at 11:57 PM

WOW!  ladies I am so hurt and confused!!!!!!

He says HE NEVER HAS DONE SOMETHING LIKE THIS BEFORE, that it has been the only time....

and Ido not know what to believe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sweetgrlangel
by Member on Sep. 3, 2012 at 12:01 AM
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I'd break out the trash bags and start throwing his shit in them, then put them on the curb where trash belongs. I would also go tell her husband, maybe just maybe, he'd beat the crap outta your husband. Even if he doesn't he needs to know your hubby is making moves on his wifey.
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jjolsen77
by on Sep. 3, 2012 at 12:05 AM
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trustme from experience, he has probably done this before.it is called an affair because it isnt supposedto be something your caught doing. If he was bold enough to do this with her and come on to her like this then reality is he probably has....have you checked his phone and emails lately...i would turn into a private investigtor on his ass.

Quoting Monsita:

WOW!  ladies I am so hurt and confused!!!!!!

He says HE NEVER HAS DONE SOMETHING LIKE THIS BEFORE, that it has been the only time....

and Ido not know what to believe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


SareyF
by Sarah on Sep. 3, 2012 at 12:09 AM
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And even if it's only a one time thing, he spent 8 WEEKS doing this, and he must have thought about how it could effect you but did it anyway.

Quoting jjolsen77:

trustme from experience, he has probably done this before.it is called an affair because it isnt supposedto be something your caught doing. If he was bold enough to do this with her and come on to her like this then reality is he probably has....have you checked his phone and emails lately...i would turn into a private investigtor on his ass.


Quoting Monsita:


WOW!  ladies I am so hurt and confused!!!!!!


He says HE NEVER HAS DONE SOMETHING LIKE THIS BEFORE, that it has been the only time....


and Ido not know what to believe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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Crazy_Daze
by on Sep. 3, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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 In addition to what's been said, I might even give that girl a hug for letting you know!

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