Having a baby is tough and us moms go through it right away and have to adapt and change instantly, while I am discovering that the dads have a little longer time to adjust. I'm 5 months post pardum and my husband works in a restaurant and there is a local bar right down the road. He has gone out on the weekends for a couple beers while I am at home sleeping cause it is so late and convenient. He is not a drinker, but he says he needs an outlet... One of the most awful feelings in the world is waking up at 2am and your husband is not next to you in bed and there is no text or phone call. I know he is not cheating on me, but this is not fare! I'm so angry I don't know what to do. I thought he was in a car crash or in the hospital cause he promised he wasn't going to ever not let me know if he was going out again, cause this wasn't the first time. He is such an amazing man and father and then he pulls this stupid selfish irresponsible stunt on me. He worked a double all day long and then went out till 2am. What am i missing? Is he in denial about our baby or us?