The other day my boyfriend of 1 yr was talking to a female friend (whos single) on Facebook who he use to hang out with a lot before he met me. He told me he was talking to her at the time so he wasn't try to hide it or anything. I was sitting next to him while he was talking to her and happen to look over as he was asking her "would you have actually dated me" her reply was "yes." Apparently they were each others back up plan. New years of 2011 they told each other that if they hadn't found someone by new years 2012 that they would start dating and see what happend but he met me Aug 2011 and we've been together ever since. I know the back up plan thing was said before we met but I don't know it still kinda bothers me cause I mean there would have to be some kind of feelings there for them to make the plan Right? And why would it matter if she would of dated him or not... I don't understand the point of him asking that. He said he was joking when he asked he said they use to joke all the time about dating each other and told each other I love you. But anyway he ended the convo asking if she wanted to get coffee and catch up then gave her his number and she gave him hers. I trust him and everything and he has never gave be a reason to think that he would ever cheat but how would you feel?
on Sep. 18, 2012 at 1:23 AM