My husband and I have been married almost a year. We have 2 children. My son from a previous relationship almost 4, and our daughter together almost 2. He works full time, and I stay at home with the kids, and watch another little one full time. My husband and I have always had a very great couple. I am his laid back, and he is my all out there, loud, goofy, center of attention. We have always been on the same page when it came to in the bed room. He has always wanted sex at least 4 times a week and it has been this way since the beginning. Sex has never been an issue with us, its something that each of us has always looked forward to once the kids are in bed. Our time.
Well recently my husband has started going to the gym with a friend of his (male) and has really gotten on this health kick. I'm happy for him that he is wanting to work out and is watching his health more. but now, well I just don't know. He gets up every morning and is at the gym at 5am, comes home takes a shower and goes to work. Gets home about 6pm. Doesn't really do much when he gets home, plays with the kids a little and thats it. I give the kids a bath and put them to bed. While I am putting the kids to bed he jumps in the shower and heads to bed himself. By the time I am done picking up and then get myself ready for bed hes asleep. He use to never go to bed before me. He always helped me pick up then we went to bed together.
What happen to the man that couldn't wait to get me in the bed? There have been times when I couldn't even get my PJs on good with out him trying to take them off, or if I want to sleep nude it was like his body just knew I was naked, and sleeping or not this man was awake and ready. We haven't been close in the bed for 2 weeks!! I have went to bed naked 4 different times and NOTHING! At first I thought well maybe he is tired, but now I just don't know. I don't think my husband is cheeting, but what is wrong? I am happy he is getting in shap, but at the same time I am very upset because every since he has been going to the gym we now have no sex life. I am loosing my mind, and am very frustrated. Please help! What can I do? Or should I just not do anything and wait it out.