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how do you feel about gentleman clubs

Posted by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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I'm having a hard time coping with the fact my husband went to his buddies bachelor party out of town for the night. Am I overreacting or is it normal to be a little uneasy about it? I trust him but alcohol and naked women doesn't create a positive influence to me.
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CreziaMommyTo2
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 8:18 PM

i am all for them..

meganisamom
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 8:35 PM
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I agree with you. And although I trust my hubby, I wouldn't be comfortable with him going to a strip club and giving a woman money to rub her greasy body all over him. Even the thought of it is making me mad. Lol.
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MMerrill
by Melissa on Sep. 23, 2012 at 8:43 PM
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I wouldn't be too big on it, so I don't blame you.  I just think gentleman clubs/strip clubs and the naked women there are nasty.

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Lefty38
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:08 PM
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You're overreacting.  Guys just let loose at those parties.  You are assuming there will be naked women, why?  A dancer is not naked, she performs, gets paid, and goes on her way. Let him have his boy's night out and don't worry about it.  I don't know why women insist on putting a thumb on their SO's neck.  Never turns out well. Don't assume the worst unless you have reason to believe so.

SuperMom2433
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:13 PM
This is how I feel. :)


Quoting Lefty38:

You're overreacting.  Guys just let loose at those parties.  You are assuming there will be naked women, why?  A dancer is not naked, she performs, gets paid, and goes on her way. Let him have his boy's night out and don't worry about it.  I don't know why women insist on putting a thumb on their SO's neck.  Never turns out well. Don't assume the worst unless you have reason to believe so.


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MagicTemptation
by Christina on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:18 PM

Personally, I don't mind them. We had the LA Hardbodies (male strippers) perform at the bar behind my work a few nights ago. My S/O and my best friend's husband was pushing for us to go. lol. She was uncomfortable about going and I don't like the idea of men in thongs, so we ended up not going. We have a women's strip club here in town but the chicks aren't very pretty so they guys don't like to go. Let them look, but don't touch and remember, it is you he is coming home to at the end. 

countrymomma81
by Bronze Member on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:29 PM

It's something I never have to worry about as long as I'm with DH. He hates them. He went to one when he was 18 and got so disgusted that he left all his friends there. It's just not his thing. Neither is porn. 

anon1986East
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:36 PM
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I've only been to one strip club and based solely on that one place I'm not comfortable with him going alone, I trust him fully but at this place we go to (we always go together with friends) if you sit at the stage the women will actually put their pussy in a person's face, I really don't want to think about going near my DH with the thought that he probably just had some random chick rubbing her pussy against his face.

Now at this place most of the girls know me, I'm friends with a few of them. DH and I will always sit at either the bar or in the corner booth and drink with the dancers. We have a good time but a man by himself at that place is like throwing a sick fish in a tank full of sharks.

marie2409
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:38 PM
This EXACTLY!

Quoting Lefty38:

You're overreacting.  Guys just let loose at those parties.  You are assuming there will be naked women, why?  A dancer is not naked, she performs, gets paid, and goes on her way. Let him have his boy's night out and don't worry about it.  I don't know why women insist on putting a thumb on their SO's neck.  Never turns out well. Don't assume the worst unless you have reason to believe so.

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i.heart.myboys
by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 9:38 PM
We've been to one before. We've tried it a few times but i got to jealous
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