I found out about a monthe ago. I was using his laptop and I couldn't remember the website he had showed me previously so I went into "History" in order to look it up. That's where I saw that he had been going to a specific social networking site, frequently. One listing caught my eye because it said chat next to it. So, being curious I opened it. That's when I found all his chats. He had been chatting with 3-4 different women for many months. I confronted him and he tried to lie his way out of it. Saying that he was "networking" for his old boss. I then told him I read each specific message. He was shocked and then told me "Oh, I was stupid. It was a mistake." Blah Blah Blah... Well anyway, we talked and cried it all out and I told him I would forgive him. Since he didn't actually have sex with them I thought it wouldn't be that big a deal to get over it. Wrong!! I can't trust him. Period! Every time he goes in the bedroom to get online I wonder who he's talking to. Every time his phone chimes I wonder if it's another woman messaging him. I find myself checking his computer for chat sites. Oh and that's another thing that makes it worse, he started deleting his history after that. I told him it makes him look more guilty. Now I can't tell if he quit or if he just knows how to delete individual sites from the history. It's a constant thought every single day for me. It's driving me crazy because he acts like he never did anything and if I even hint at not trusting him he gets all pissy. I feel he has no right to get pissy because he caused this. I feel like he should be doing whatever it takes to convince me he quit and to be extra affectionate to make me feel better, but he's doing the opposite. He less affectionate and does things that are suspicious. I can't take it!!! Please, tell me what you would do??