The bf of two years and I have been trying to buy a house for about 8 months. He always puts the pressure on me stating "well you have a va loan, so you do it". I have asked him to try in his name, and he says he did a few months ago but they wont approve him for the full loan amount. I told him that our current contract we are in that i dont have my va loan paper and i got denied for fha loan. He just keeps putting the pressure back on me.
So yesterday as I was texting him, he says "im leaving work and will be home to talk about this important matter." He has never done this. I feel like he has become so distant lately, but maybe it is me overreacting. He doesnt want to try in his name, but pressures me to do it. If he wanted to be with me forever like he says, then wouldnt he want to try to help me? Im confused.
I finally got through to him today and told him how things were. If he wanted to keep me.....he needs to get on contract with me and buy house TOGETHER. He will have to get loan in his name. Low and behold......he is doing both.