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Would this bother you or am i overreacting?

Posted by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 7:55 AM
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Bf of 2 years almost always comes to bed and cuddles immediately. He has had cold so didn't want to. For the past week even since he felt better he won't cuddle. Will lay with his.back to me and won't touch. Granted we had awesome sex Sunday night but I'm wondering what I did wrong for him not touch me? I said to him this morning "what you don't like laying near me in bed anymore?" He says "what! You have an issue with that because I want to lay this way! you're ridiculous!" What do I do?

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findingserenity
by Bronze Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 7:58 AM
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something is bothering him or he just enjoy laying the other way.
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JuliFox
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 7:59 AM
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You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.
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bpryce
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:00 AM
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My thoughts exactly

Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.
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Ladybug1260
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:02 AM

I did lay with him when he had his cold.  I didnt deny that.  If he chooses to lay the way he is now then that would create a problem because no cuddling in bed.....no intimacy or sex for him and trust me I can hold a grudge for a loooooong time. 

Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.


Ladybug1260
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:03 AM

I did lay with him when he was sick.  We cuddled the whole time in bed.  Nothing changed there.

Quoting bpryce:

My thoughts exactly

Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.


98765
by Silver Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:05 AM
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Before i was married and i would spend the night w a BF i would get mad if they had their back turned to me at any point of the night.

That was dumb. Who cares? He is in your bed and you should be happy about that. Lol

My husband cuddles w me almost everynight--for all of 5 mubs before turning over and going to sleep.

Get over it.
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Ladybug1260
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:08 AM

So you are telling me that a guy that loves or loved to cuddle every night ALL night long who suddenly wont even touch me isnt an issue going on?  I think you are wrong there. 

Quoting 98765:

Before i was married and i would spend the night w a BF i would get mad if they had their back turned to me at any point of the night.

That was dumb. Who cares? He is in your bed and you should be happy about that. Lol

My husband cuddles w me almost everynight--for all of 5 mubs before turning over and going to sleep.

Get over it.


bpryce
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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Your post said "he has had cold so didnt want to" that sounds like you didnt cuddle him while he was sick, maybe you should edit that line.

Quoting Ladybug1260:

I did lay with him when he was sick.  We cuddled the whole time in bed.  Nothing changed there.


Quoting bpryce:

My thoughts exactly



Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.


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Ladybug1260
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:12 AM

In the beginning of the cold we did, as he got sicker HE didnt feel like it.  Wasn't because I didn't want to....HE didnt want to. 

Quoting bpryce:

Your post said "he has had cold so didnt want to" that sounds like you didnt cuddle him while he was sick, maybe you should edit that line.

Quoting Ladybug1260:

I did lay with him when he was sick.  We cuddled the whole time in bed.  Nothing changed there.


Quoting bpryce:

My thoughts exactly



Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.



karingT
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:12 AM
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Your not ridiculous you need to know whats up! Why is he acting so funny? So instead of walking around it, ask him. Maybe he is stressed or maybe you done something that offended him but he needs to tell you because like you I would be thinking the same way.

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