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I checked my husbands text messages. Update

Posted by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:37 PM
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But with reason, he just got a promotion and a girl he used to work with keeps texting him alot. He asked her to send him a picture of herself. Her text said she was going to send
it to his email. So do I confront him
about it or I am just as wrong for checking his messages?



Update: Well I am not one to
confront people... But I did
He was on the computer checking his Discover statement and I said I was going to bed. He said he was going to stay up for a minute and I said"don't masturbate too hard to
that pic she sent you". He says it's a
picture of a claim from work. I said " if you're being truthful then I apologize for checking your messages. But I
think she texts you way to much". He said he agrees that she does text him
too much with work related problems. They're not in the same drpartment anymore. I told him he needs to tell
her to cut back. Then I told him that I want I really want is for all communication between them to
end. Delete her number and email address and if you need to reach her call her at the store. I'll keep you posted if that happens.

Even if I'm wrong, I'm glad I confronted him.
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myrihanna
by Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:43 PM
Hell yeah confront him
BUFFIE.the.BODY
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:44 PM
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I'd beat my DF ass! I'd put him the fuck out
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jenny0709
by Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:46 PM
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I would be too pissed not to hit him!! Yes confront his ass!!!!
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bcauseimthemom
by Bronze Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:47 PM
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Checking his text messages in the first place is kinda shady but when you do that kind of thing you better be ready to find something you don't want to know.  Since you have already checked his texts, why not jump in with both feet and get into his email and check for the picture. If it is there, print it out and put it on his pillow with a knife in it??  In for a penny, in for a pound....

unsuspected
by Gold Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:48 PM
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Confront him.

You checked because you felt cause to and low and behold, you found something prooving your gut instincts right.  Follow it through.

In a perfect, halthy thriving marriage of course you wouldn't have snooped, but he wouldn't have had anything to hide either, so life's not perfect.  

mommagirl77
by Bronze Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:48 PM
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Oh no...I wouldn't of been able to be quiet this long...definitely ask him wth he is doing asking for other women's pics for!
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MrsMetalMama
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:49 PM
He'd be talked to
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meganisamom
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:50 PM
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Please let us know what the moron has to say. You should leave his ass. To me, that's cheating.
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Yourself
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:50 PM
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Pig.
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Fairywings1223
by Bronze Member on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:50 PM
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I would confront him. I would of said something right away.
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