so me and dh haven't really been getting along so well. Everything he does irritates me. Like today I am so sick, I mean he let me take a nap, and took our son out while our daughter was sleeping in her room. I wake up and our house is such a mess, plates everywhere and napkins all over the floor, dishes piled up. I was so angry. Its like I'm sick I would like to be able to relax and rest so I could feel better. But I wake up, and take care of my daughter and when he gets home I complain and he cleans up but says he's leaving the dishes for me. Really? He goes off to the gym for like an hr and a half and I'm left with both kids. While I have a migran, runny nose, cough, fever, sore throat, and aching from head to toe. He comes home, takes a shower and gets dressed to go get food. By than I lost my appetite and who wants pizza when they're super sick and feeling like their throat is all swelled up. Not me. I was just so angry cause its like he always thinks of him and no one else. He gets mad at me for being mad, and ignoring him so he leaves. Its 1 am and my son was still up cause both of my kids are sick aswell and I text him to come home so he can watch the kids since he likes to stay up. But he doesn't come home til 4am. So I was very angry. He comes home and wakes me up to give him a massage and wants to "cuddle" but I knew he only said cuddle so id give him the massage. I was feeling worse than I did the whole day. I get angry and lock the bedroom door after giving him the massage and dealing with his stupid jokes. He gets mad and yells at me to open the door. I do and he grabs me by the neck and starts yelling. I mean I love him, because we've been together for 4 yrs and we have 2 beautiful babies. But I'm not in love with him anymore. I know id be fine without him, but am I overreacting or is it time to move on?
on Oct. 6, 2012 at 4:52 AM