Quoting meganisamom:
That's. Not thats. Who needs spell check? Just wondering. Should we mention the commas you forgot?
Quoting coffeelover66:
And im entitled to mine and i think u need to use spell check now thats my opinion ;-)
Quoting coffeelover66:
Here is my excuse for not using commas im at work and on my phone during break i type fast and so whats yrs
Quoting meganisamom:
That's. Not thats. Who needs spell check? Just wondering. Should we mention the commas you forgot?
Quoting coffeelover66:
And im entitled to mine and i think u need to use spell check now thats my opinion ;-)
Quoting coffeelover66:
Here is my excuse for not using commas im at work and on my phone during break i type fast and so whats yrs
Quoting meganisamom:
That's. Not thats. Who needs spell check? Just wondering. Should we mention the commas you forgot?
Quoting coffeelover66:
And im entitled to mine and i think u need to use spell check now thats my opinion ;-)
These ARE the daughters who think it is okay to live like this. At least the ones I know are. Their parents lived like this and now they do.
Quoting CDMelty:These ARE the daughters who think it is okay to live like this. At least the ones I know are. Their parents lived like this and now they do.
Quoting timswife_momof2:i would no way marry someone who has alot of kids. my husband has one with a previous girl he was married too by the way, and i had one from a previous boyfriend and we i got married and established a good family life before i even thought aout having my last baby.
I think it is, too. They think these men are fixable and it's too late when they finally figure out they aren't. We just don't need to go into a relationship where someone needs to be "fixed". But yes, my boyfriend and I have been together going on three years now. He treats me well:).
Quoting merryvoice:
I think that's why a lot of women stay...because they think they can fix them. But I'm so glad you left and I hope you have someone who treats you well.
Quoting raegan1221:
I have been there myself. I married my ex husband when I was 20 years old....and we started dating at 18...he was abusive one month in both physically and emotionally. He strangled me for the first time when I was 19 right before we got engaged. I still married him and it only escalated. He called me every name in the book, smothered my face in dirt, hit me while I was pregnant with our son. The only reason I left was because of my son when he was 3 months old. He never hit my stomach....and he never hurt me in front of our son except one time. That is when I left.
Now to answer your question: I don't know. I wish I could understand that. I went to three different counselors when we split up...and I couldn't understand what I was thinking. Even at the time, it was like my head was in a bubble. At the beginning of the relationship, I thought I could save him. Yes, I am one of those...I thought I could save him. He had a very bad childhood. Then when I knew I couldn't it was too late because he had beat me down emotionally so bad that I didn't care about myself. I quit fighting back. I quit caring about anything except our son. So when he did that in front of him, it kind of woke me up. 6 years later, I have coming very far and can stand like you and ask that question "why?" because it doesn't make sense.
Quoting raegan1221:I think it is, too. They think these men are fixable and it's too late when they finally figure out they aren't. We just don't need to go into a relationship where someone needs to be "fixed". But yes, my boyfriend and I have been together going on three years now. He treats me well:).
Quoting merryvoice:
I think that's why a lot of women stay...because they think they can fix them. But I'm so glad you left and I hope you have someone who treats you well.
Quoting raegan1221:
I have been there myself. I married my ex husband when I was 20 years old....and we started dating at 18...he was abusive one month in both physically and emotionally. He strangled me for the first time when I was 19 right before we got engaged. I still married him and it only escalated. He called me every name in the book, smothered my face in dirt, hit me while I was pregnant with our son. The only reason I left was because of my son when he was 3 months old. He never hit my stomach....and he never hurt me in front of our son except one time. That is when I left.
Now to answer your question: I don't know. I wish I could understand that. I went to three different counselors when we split up...and I couldn't understand what I was thinking. Even at the time, it was like my head was in a bubble. At the beginning of the relationship, I thought I could save him. Yes, I am one of those...I thought I could save him. He had a very bad childhood. Then when I knew I couldn't it was too late because he had beat me down emotionally so bad that I didn't care about myself. I quit fighting back. I quit caring about anything except our son. So when he did that in front of him, it kind of woke me up. 6 years later, I have coming very far and can stand like you and ask that question "why?" because it doesn't make sense.
am i the only want that feels like this?.?
- meganisamom
on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:53 AM