Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Love & Marriage Love & Marriage

I want to thank dh for being there

Posted by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:56 PM
  • 15 Replies
1 mom liked this
Dh and I have been through a lot. When I say a lot, I mean a lot. Dh an I have our ups and downs, fights and arguements. But at the end of the day we still hold each other no matter how mad we are. Dh does a lot and I don't acknowledge that but I should. I never told him how I really feel I don't have the courage to tell him. He is my one and only, I never been with another man but him. When I am with him I feel whole and my babies gives me extra everyday.

Dh gives me that type of love I never had from anyone. He gets on my nerves at times but who don't? I remember when I first met dh, my dad was drunk and I got my stuff and my dad almost pushed me down the atairs and dhs 19 year old caught me. When my dad said hateful things dh was there when I needed someone to talk too. Dh father acted more like a father than my own did.

So what I'm trying to say is this, you all only see what I post and not ths good things. I get angry and I don't put anything good about dh or anybody in that matter. Someone once said 'you have to love yourself before you love anyone' and its true, I didn't love myself so I couldn't love dh like I should or acknowledge what he does for me.

Something woken me up today and I realize how much I love myself. How much I love dh and I have posted how dh is always mean and stuff but I should of put how good he is at times and all the time. I just didn't see it til now.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:56 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
katamike
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 12:34 AM
3 moms liked this

 You know,I love seeing posts like this. Everyone is always downgrading thier DH's. I love mine to the end of the earth. you should tell dh how you feel about him. I bet you would make his day. :) thanks for posting something positive about your dh. nice to see that not everyone hates thier spouse. We all too often take them for granted, not knowing when thier (or yours for that matter) time is up, and we may not have tomorrow. Make it a point every day to tell him how much you love him, and how thankful you are to have him in your life :)

parisonmom
by Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:04 AM
Thanks:). I did and he hated it. He thought I was arguing with him I told him I love him and appreciate everutbing he does for me. And he got mad. I tried at least.


Quoting katamike:

 You know,I love seeing posts like this. Everyone is always downgrading thier DH's. I love mine to the end of the earth. you should tell dh how you feel about him. I bet you would make his day. :) thanks for posting something positive about your dh. nice to see that not everyone hates thier spouse. We all too often take them for granted, not knowing when thier (or yours for that matter) time is up, and we may not have tomorrow. Make it a point every day to tell him how much you love him, and how thankful you are to have him in your life :)


Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Sammi20
by Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:06 AM

Go hug your masn and tell him what you told us! minus the part where you talk bad about him on here... He will appreciate your loving words!

katamike
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:26 AM

 Oh no! Well maybe he isn't the mushy type? Believe me he heard you, and he will be thinking about it:) Whether or not he lets you know :)

Quoting parisonmom:

Thanks:). I did and he hated it. He thought I was arguing with him I told him I love him and appreciate everutbing he does for me. And he got mad. I tried at least.


Quoting katamike:

 You know,I love seeing posts like this. Everyone is always downgrading thier DH's. I love mine to the end of the earth. you should tell dh how you feel about him. I bet you would make his day. :) thanks for posting something positive about your dh. nice to see that not everyone hates thier spouse. We all too often take them for granted, not knowing when thier (or yours for that matter) time is up, and we may not have tomorrow. Make it a point every day to tell him how much you love him, and how thankful you are to have him in your life :)


 

"When you saw one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you"

98765
by Silver Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 7:00 AM
Wait, he got mad at you for telling him you love him and appreciate him? That right there is a problem


Quoting parisonmom:

Thanks:). I did and he hated it. He thought I was arguing with him I told him I love him and appreciate everutbing he does for me. And he got mad. I tried at least.




Quoting katamike:

 You know,I love seeing posts like this. Everyone is always downgrading thier DH's. I love mine to the end of the earth. you should tell dh how you feel about him. I bet you would make his day. :) thanks for posting something positive about your dh. nice to see that not everyone hates thier spouse. We all too often take them for granted, not knowing when thier (or yours for that matter) time is up, and we may not have tomorrow. Make it a point every day to tell him how much you love him, and how thankful you are to have him in your life :)



Posted on CafeMom Mobile
jacobsmommy84
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:50 AM
This was really cute:)
I love reading posts like this:)
I adore my husband to the moon and back too.... There's no one else.... He was made just for me:) :) :)
Us lucky girls:*)
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
i.heart.myboys
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:57 AM
I love reading posts like this. I know I've made a post or two badly about dh when i was uber mad but for the most part so grateful to have him.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
i.heart.myboys
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:57 AM
I love reading posts like this. I know I've made a post or two badly about dh when i was uber mad but for the most part so grateful to have him.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Lorena
by Silver Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:58 AM
That is so sweet. I love posts like this. I love my dh more then I could ever tell him. Since he thought you were arguing with him and you really want him to know put it in a love letter. Thats what I do I set it out with a beer and his favorit candy bar while I run to the store or take a shower so he has time to read it alone. :)
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
ShannaBee
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 7:23 PM

This makes me smile!

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)