We seem to rarely see each other I am a SHAM and dh works 56+hrs a week. When Sunday rolls around we fight all day. He knows exactly which buttons to push and I am over it. IE: When I mentioned to him I am tired of my children saying "bad mommy/daddy" His response is "You're in charge while I am gone." To me this says, not only are you expected to cook and clean, but you also have to be the bad guy in dicipline. It also says all he is expected to do is work 6 days a week and povide the pay check. He will also say, "we discussed this before we choose to have children".
I don't know what to do to fix this. I don't even know what I want to have happen. I guess acknowledge that he picks fights on the only day we spend together. I think some of the problem is that I also have a nb (6 weeks) so sex has been non-existant. The other night he came home, sat on the computer for a while, jumped in the shower and headed to bed at 7:30, without hardly speaking to me. I thought not being together brings people together, not tear them apart.
K Vent over.