My DH and I have been married for just over a year. You would think the honeymoon stage wouldnt be over yet, but it is. I cant remember the last time we held hands or just spent time together. We have 3 kids. A 5 year old, a 17 month old and a 7 week old. I know we just had a baby and its gonna be tough. but it isnt as hard as you would think! I know he loves me. I just dont feel like im at the top of his priority list anymore...I dont feel beautiful anymore. it doesnt tell me i am. he doesnt bring me flowers anymore. Hes so worried about being a bad day...which is far from. But not at all concerned with being a neglectful husband. Ive tried talking to him about it, but i just turns into a fight and i dont wanna fight with him. I hardly get to see him to begin with, why would i wanna spend the only time we have alone arguing so i just let it go. I dont know what to do :-( i mean, dont get me wrong, we still have sex sometimes but only when he wants it and its boring!!!! I want the pre-child sex back! I wanna know how much he wants me and that im the only one for him. The flame is dimming...fast and i need to get it lit again before i lose the only man ive ever loved. I need to spice up my marriage....but how?