Would you have implants if he wanted you too? UPDATE

[Bertieb]

UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy.  He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department,  except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.

I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!

[mybaby77]

I plan on getting them done, I'm a 36D, but after pregnancy they don't look as full as I want them too, I never really got to enjoy them when they were nice and perky lol, since I had my first son at 16, my bf never told me to go do it, I told him what my plan is.

[MomToovey]

 Oh, but to answer your question - no, I wouldn't get a boob job because HE wanted me to, I'd do it if I wanted me to :)

[whitleypittman]

No.

[sstripedmonkey]

I would only get it done on my terms, and if we had the money

[AshleyPie]

I used to think I wanted them. I barely fill a 34A. But after taking care of my mom when she got hers done, no way! Not worth it.

[rayroe2]

 I miss my boobs and so does my dh lol I was a 32a before baby and now I have 32ds we both don't like them but my body didn't have time to go back after pregnancy so were hoping they go back to being small after this baby gets here. You should talk with your husband and ask him why he kept mentioning it so much. I wouldn't ever change my body, just work on it by working out. I don't know I just always loved my body even tho sometimes I get jealousy when I see a women with a more curvy body I wish I could have a body like that but then I remind myself I do I am just pregnant so I can see it.

[aimesnyc]

This.  And fortunately, my husband loves me just the way I am - imperfections and all.

Quoting mustloveanimals:

Not a snowball's chance in hell would I get my breasts done to make my DH happy.

[jmjdj]

Never because he wanted me to...only if I wanted them.  Although I think I have small boobs (36B) he likes them just fine and says he doesn't care for fake ones because they don't feel right.  Kinda glad he feels that way!  :)

[xoxoDanicaxoxo]

No, I would only get that done for myself.

[hippiechik3]

For him no but for me yes. I have looked in to it an really wanted to do it but you have maintain them every 4 years or so. I dont want to spend that much money a effort on happiness to have firm breasts again. I would rather have a tummy tuck.