Would you have implants if he wanted you too? UPDATE
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!
Don't do it unless it's for yourself!
I had the surgery done 5 years ago, and I did it for me... after more than a decade of thinking it over. The next time your husband brings it up, simply ask him to stop. It's a decision you will make on your own and you want to be sure you're doing it for yourself, and not because you think he wants you too.
BTW... if I had been your size, I wouldn't have had the surgery. I would have been VERY happy with what I had.
YES! I want fake boobs but he doesn't really want me to get them. We agreed for my 27th birthday (when my IUD comes out and he gets snipped and when both kids are in school full time) that I will get them. But, we can't agree on a size, plenty of time though.
I am not saying you are wrong by any means, but where are you getting measured? Your size should be measured where your band sits NO INCHES ADDED (unless it is an odd number, then round up one), and fullest part of your breast. Subtract band from breast=cup. So you are saying you measure 42 inches where you band sits and 47 inches at your breast by your bra size. I'm not trying to be obnoxious and I promise to leave you alone. I just know how different Iooked when I got into the right size (I was originally told 38D--I was actually 32H--this was when I was nursing). P.S. I loved breakoutbras.com when I actually needed big booby bras!
Quoting bakerytreatz16:
I'm very top heavy. I had my daughter 6 months ago. Before her I wore I size 2 Jean, and a 42 C bra. I've always been top heavy. I stared wearing my dirt actual real bra when I wa 11. After having my daughter u an now a size 5 with a 42 DD bra (after losing some weight).
Quoting MamaJAG:Unless you carry A LOT more weight up top, there is no way a size 5, 5' 8" lady wears a 42DD. My guess is your band is much smaller and your cups are much larger. I am an anal bra sizer. =)
Quoting bakerytreatz16:
In five foot 8, I wear a 5 in jeans an my bra is a 42 DD. hell no. He better be happy with what he has lol
I wouldn't go under the knife to have big boobs. Mine doesn't mind my boobs so I'm good.
If I was small chested and he asked me to I would.
My sister in law did it and she loves hers.
I am in a D cup so that is not going to happen though.
YVONNE
am i the only want that feels like this?.?
- Bertieb
on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:08 AM