See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So I am now three months pregnant with my first and my boyfriend and I have known for 2 months. The first month things were great. Now I've told my parents a month ago, he keeps saying he will and then something comes up. I have also asked him for help like standing in line cause I almost pass out if I stand too long and cleaning the cat box. He says he doesn't think he should have to because it's for me and the baby not him. He is also not currently working and only takes 2 classes. I have gotten to the point where I told him he needed to step up and show me he wanted to be with me and the baby or he'd lose me. We were going to sit down the next day and talk about it per his request to see me. He texted me 10 minutes before and said he wasn't going to make it and I haven't heard from him since. It's now been 2 days and I know he's ok cause facebook shows him out with friends and at bars. My family thinks I need to give him time and he'll come around, but I'm so hurt right now I don't know what to do. If anyone has been through this your advice would be great.