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hey ladies,
So please tell me if I'm wrong, or what your advice is. My boyfriend and I live together with our 2 kids. He's an okay dad, and an okay boyfriend most of the time, not as great as I wish. We had gotten into an argument last night because he likes to call me a b!t(h and I confronted him about that. I also confronted him about how he waste so much gas, and how we only use my money for bills and everything, and how he only uses his for his stuff and doesn't help out financially. Also he is a temp jumping from job to job, but he LOVES to take long breaks after an assignment ends. Even though he knows we can't afford that. He starts yelling and calls me an even bigger b!t(h and tells me I talk too much $h!t, and that we waste money so much because I'm a fat @$$ and we spend it on my food. He likes to go out to eat as much as I do or more. He talks about how horrible I am, and how he'd be okay without me. I'm getting really tired of being hurt all the time. Have I dealt with enough? Is it time to say goodbye and not look back, or keep trying? Advice please
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by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 2:10 PM
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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Oct. 11, 2012 at 9:54 AM

 Yeah, I would be gone.

MIMI2700
by Member on Oct. 11, 2012 at 4:21 PM

Kick that mother to the curb!  What a piece of sh*t!

PROGENITOR
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 4:25 PM

It was time to say goodbye before having a first or second child with him. Was he okay before that?

MomToovey
by Marianne on Oct. 11, 2012 at 10:17 PM

 Well, ultimately only you can decide what's best for you and your children. But if it were me, and he really was that consistently disrespectful to me as well as a non-contributing member of the family, it'd be really easy to cut ties. Good luck

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