Recently, I made the decision to tell one of my on again off again friends that my DH is not fond of her (due to a fall out me and her had and he felt that was a shady friend and hasn't care for her since then) that was more than a year ago. I was really hurt and pissed off but I got over it. (The argument) Because we're always on and off. Which was definitely not healthy. I should have told her last year about his and my feelings. But I was in a super high risk pregnancy and an emotional mess. So I let it sit. Now I'm pregnant again and it's finally a girl and we're throwing a baby shower/ family get together. And DH asked if she has to attend if yes okay never mind. But I know my DH if she came he would be sociable but not comfortable. So I told her we need to talk and I was finally able to tell her about DH feelings. And regarding the baby shower. I understand her feelings were going to be hurt but she took the whole conversation to another level basically saying I'm letting some man come between our friendship and say who I can be friends with. In this case it was my decision because I felt we weren't even close friends anymore and we were drifting apart. I think she forgot that. Plus I was sick of trying to make this friendship work when you have to tap dance around everything.
Have you ever been through this??
on Oct. 10, 2012 at 11:18 AM