Quoting MrsBell29:Here is my question, How long have you been together ? And was he doing all this BEFORE he found out about his DS ?
not sure what day means but I think you mean his son? No we use to just have come to our house. He only goes to her place cause his son cant leave. Don't think he is cheating on me with her but was worried that they may be reconnecting and leaving me out of the picture! I find it disrespectful. I feel I should be a part of it. Its been 4 yrs.
Quoting timswife_momof2:uh yeh when i first started dating my husband he did this too. he went to his ex house and visited with his daughter and i broke up with him over it and he begged me for 3 months to get back together with him and that he would never go over there again, now we have been married 2 yrs and he doesnt even speak to her. if she has something she needs to say she says it to his mother and his mother tells him. under no circumstances is he allowed to be around her without me.
If he doesn't want to change his ways while he's with you now then u don't need to be with him.
So his child is dying of cancer and you are worried that he is cheating? LOL OK lady.
Your 100% focus should be his child and what that child needs. They may not want a whole crew around because of germs. They may not want you around because you have jacked up priorities.... "his baby brother misses him" uhhh the kid is DYING. Do you know what that means??? DYING. seriously. Your biggest concern is where the guy your datinng's penis is. really? Id want to leave you too if I were him. "im visiting my dying child and you are worried about yourself?"
LISTEN TO YOURSELF!!!!
Are you for real??? The child is dying and you are worried they may bond over their sick kid. Id dump your ass so fast!
Quoting bellebear:Quoting MrsBell29:Here is my question, How long have you been together ? And was he doing all this BEFORE he found out about his DS ?
not sure what day means but I think you mean his son? No we use to just have come to our house. He only goes to her place cause his son cant leave. Don't think he is cheating on me with her but was worried that they may be reconnecting and leaving me out of the picture! I find it disrespectful. I feel I should be a part of it. Its been 4 yrs.
I have nothing nice to say and I remember your last post.
Exiting post
Good luck to you
We're on the same page.
Quoting la_bella_vita:I have nothing nice to say and I remember your last post.
Exiting post
Good luck to you
idk she says he was, he says he wasnt. and she keeps trying to break us up everytime she sees him she hits on him and tells him to leave me. she calls in the middle of the night and asks him to come over all the time. and he has told her to stop but she doesnt. its like she wont stop until we are broke up. so its just better that he not speak with her unless he absolutely has too. and im sorry that that is your opinion but it works for our family, and that is all that is important.
Quoting 3xangel:
Was he cheating on you with the ex? If not, everything you just wrote is beyond ridiculous and messed up.
Quoting timswife_momof2:
uh yeh when i first started dating my husband he did this too. he went to his ex house and visited with his daughter and i broke up with him over it and he begged me for 3 months to get back together with him and that he would never go over there again, now we have been married 2 yrs and he doesnt even speak to her. if she has something she needs to say she says it to his mother and his mother tells him. under no circumstances is he allowed to be around her without me.
and also he gets him daughter every weekend, every holiday and every summer. her mom keeps her while she is in school and when she is out of school we get her. so he has no reason to go over there anymore except when he picks her up and even that is a nightmare with her. i dont get why exs just cant be civil. at least for the children.
Quoting timswife_momof2:
idk she says he was, he says he wasnt. and she keeps trying to break us up everytime she sees him she hits on him and tells him to leave me. she calls in the middle of the night and asks him to come over all the time. and he has told her to stop but she doesnt. its like she wont stop until we are broke up. so its just better that he not speak with her unless he absolutely has too. and im sorry that that is your opinion but it works for our family, and that is all that is important.
Quoting 3xangel:
Was he cheating on you with the ex? If not, everything you just wrote is beyond ridiculous and messed up.
Quoting timswife_momof2:
uh yeh when i first started dating my husband he did this too. he went to his ex house and visited with his daughter and i broke up with him over it and he begged me for 3 months to get back together with him and that he would never go over there again, now we have been married 2 yrs and he doesnt even speak to her. if she has something she needs to say she says it to his mother and his mother tells him. under no circumstances is he allowed to be around her without me.
When you met your dh/so?
- bellebear
on Oct. 10, 2012 at 1:28 PM