I get home from work and my husband starts talking about an old friend that contacted him on Facebook. She wants them to be friends again after having no contact for four years. Since my husband has cheated in the past, he wanted to know if I would be ok with them being friends again. I told him I don't care, do whatever you want. That was at 8:30pm last night, since then she has called him twice and had texted him nonstop. I'm starting to get pissed because she doesn't need to talk to him at 2 in the morning. I told him that to me it's strange how she's blowing up his phone so quickly. We are trying to work through our issues, but I told him I don't trust him and he needs to earn it back (this whole situation is not helping). He thinks I'm overreacting, am I?
Talked to him this morning and told him that I am trying to trust but doing it slowly. I figured be friends on facebook and chat, no big deal, but day 1 she gives her number to him and they start blowing up each others phone. It's not like they were friends for years and lost contact, they were only friends for 4 months total. I told her that in the friendship there needs to be boundaries, calling and texting until 2 is not ok. He said he would talk to her and let her know that she can't text and call that late. Also she knows about me, today she friend requested me on facebook.
on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:00 AM