My bil got married last weekend to a highschool classmate of mine. I love her, love him, but dh and I agree that they may not be the best match. They are each other's first real meaningful relationship and from our perspective there are a lot of little flags in the way they treat each other that might not make for a healthy long lasting marriage. Things that seem small now but could be huge later; like the fact that she doesn't want to breastfeed and he would like her to, so he is hoping that finances will be tight enough that she will not really have a choice rather than talking it out now about all the reasons they feel the way they do and coming to a mutual understanding before the baby is born (they are not currently pregnant but might become pregnant soon). We truely hope they are happy together until death do them part, but dh and I can't help feeling a little concerned. I guess I'm just trying to reassure myself that they will make it!