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I feel stupid for posting, thinking or even talking about this but… (little bit more info)

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• Do not comment if you are going to be rude, judgmental, bitchy, or in anyway shape or form an asshole about the situation, me or my DH. 

• No I do not have family to turn to about this

• No I do not have any friends to turn to 

• This is the only place I can go to vent, rant, rave and express how I feel.

• Here is the only place I can freely express with out being scared of anything. 

So… today is my 10-11-12 birthday! My DH has told me about a million time happy birthday because he feels bad about not being able to be here. Well we had a plan to go out to celebrate on the 20th but like every year something else happens to put a stop to that. (I have never had a birthday party or even celebrated my birthday EVER) DH and I have been together for 3yrs the 1st yr I was pregnant, the 2nd year he was at work, this year well this one pisses me off the most… he will forget because on 10-10-10 my DHs ex fiancés 19yr old son killed himself.  Now she is coming here that weekend and well yet again I am nothin to anyone. I don't mean to be selfish or sound selfish after 18 year (I'm only 25) I should be use to everyone forgetting my birthday by now but I'm not every year I'm hurt that no one remembers. And it does not help that my DHs aunt turned 48 today either. 

I don't know I guess it's just my pitty party and I know it's selfish but this is the first time I have her said anything about how I feel when it comes to this. Usually I just keep my mouth shut and go on with my day as though nothing even happened. I feel stupid for even talking about it or even caring after all these years I guess. 

Oh and my DH has been saying happy birthday to me all day a million times because he feels bad for not being here this year either he said. (He is at work) 

I'm not mad at my DH he set a reminder on his phone and that's to be expected because he has a really hard job and is away for so long. It's not about the gifts last month my DH bought me a new car for my birthday! It's the fact that no one acknowledged the fact it was my birthday even when FB tells people. Not even my own mother wished me happy birthday ):
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 11:49 PM
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by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:04 PM
Happy Birthday!
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by Bronze Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:05 PM


happy birthday

by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:16 PM

:( that really sucks.... I'm sorry..... at least DH is trying honey! Sucks that your family is being total asses about your birthday!

It's seriously not hard to at least say "Happy Birthday" on FB... you get the damn notices. Even if I'm not close with the person, if they are on my facebook they are getting a Happy Birthday!

by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:21 PM

happy birthdaybirthday sweetpeablowing candlesparty

by Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:47 PM
Don't feel bad for posting and I know you aren't the only one who feels that way. You are so deserving of an amazing birthday party!

I will be your friend too. I don't have many friends in real life and I feel terrible today because my H just went to happy hour with his friends for the first time in a long time and I got all jealous and insecure and cried when he got home because I was frustrated that he made plans last minute without me.

So its OK. At least you have us right? We allonly have each other sometimes and thats OK.
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by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:40 PM
Awww...happy birthday a day late! Just ask DH if perhaps you can set a date to go out together to celebrate your birthday, cause you've never gotten to feel special on your birthday & it would mean a lot to you if he would make it a special occassion, even if it's a few days late. Since he has been telling you happy birthday all day, I think he would be agreeable to this. Just talk to him, let him know it would mean a lot to you.
by Marianne on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:47 PM

 Oh man! That's horrible! I'm sorry momma. I wish I could say something that would make it all feel better. ((HUGS))

by Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 8:43 AM

Well Happy late Birthday! I am really sorry that no one remembered on their own. It doens't feel good, that's for sure. No worries; there are lots of us who come here for the same reasons as you.

by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:12 AM

well, Happy Birthday from me!  I'm sorry no one remembered, it hurts a lot, it was done to me and I have two brother in laws who's birthdays are on each side of mine, one the 25th, mine the 26th, one the 27th....

by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:28 AM

I'm sorry, dear.

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