9... we work well together and play well together :)
The one thing we can work on is communication when something is bothering one of us.
He is great. Wonderful with his job, school and helping with the kids. Shows affection....
We do need to work on communication. He is bad about jumping the gun on things. Doing things without talking to me first. And alot of times I have to repeat myself a few times before he listens to what I say.
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I love that besides being in love we really really like eachother and are bffs. We enjoy being together no matter where we go or what we do and even when we're doing nothing at all.
The "off" things aren't real issues and don't need work they are just minor differences we have like he has a sarcastic sense of humor and I dont think sarcasm is funny, he loves horror movies and I beyond hate them. lol just little stuff.
Hell that changes based on the day. We are usually pretty darn good though. Any complaints are handled well and marriage counseling keeps us from every getting too annoying. So, if I had to base it on the stability of my marriage, the committment we both have, the trust, level of communication, love and sex. I'd say 10.
Of course, at one point in time I was living with an unmedicated PTSD, bipolar, crazy man. That wasn't so awesome. :P Compared to that we're like a 100.
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One thing I love about our marriage is how much we work as a team together. Like we each help with the kids and house cleaning. There is no that's your job or anything. It's just nice....
One thing that I feel could use some work is well one he isn't very affectionate towards me, but that has always been an issue and it is something he is working on.
But something we could work on as far as both of us is concerned is I guess I would say money issues. Learning to talk about it and not fight or get mad at each other. Okay maybe that's me that needs to work on that.....
I don't know we each have our own issues I guess....
10 even though I don't believe in perfection, we are at the best place we have ever been.
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