I am at a cross roads in my marriage with no one to talk to, so I'm coming on Cafemom for the first time in 9 months for advice. My husband and I have been living together for 7 years and married for 4. We have a 6 year old daughter and a 4 month old son. After our son was born, I tried going back to work, but i only made $30 a week and our kids were sick all the time and our daughter was about to be sent back to kindergarten. We can to an agreement that I would quit my lousy job and stay home with both kids and homeschool our daughter(which has worked wonders for her by the way). I am also taking online classes for my degree. My husband has been going to school for the past 5 years. He went to NTI, got ASE certified, earn an associates from a community college, and spent two semesters at a university before taking this semester off. He works at walmart, where he has been for the past three and a half years. That doesn't pay the bills. My mother just loaned us the money for our first home in April. He makes enough to pay the mortgage to my mother, his gas to go back and forth to work, and our insurance. Everything else is not covered. He has said for 2 months that he will get another job. He has only applied for one. My husband is a mechanic. He was a mechanic in the military, NTI is a mechanic school, ASE certification is for mechanics, and he works in Tire Lube Express at Walmart now. That's what he is good at, fixing cars. So being the, what I thought was considerate, wife I am, I talked to my cousin who is a mechanic for the state. He offered to help get my husband a great job with great hours, benefits, and pay. When I got home so excited about this amazing opportunity and shared it with husband, he threw it in my face. He said he doesn't want to be a mechanic anymore. He wants to go to school to be a mechanical engineer. When I expalined that he was out of VA pay for that and we couldn't afford it, he yelled at me and told me to get a job. I just quit my job at the daycare because I wasn't making money. He says get a better job. I don't have the skills or experience to make what he could working for the state or even to pay the bills. Not to mention the fact that we just took our daughter out of public school for me to homeschool her. It's not like I am asking for a new car, a million dollar house, or even a cell phone. I just want the bills paid. I told him to get out of my house and he refused. I don't know what to do. This was met and combined with my growing resentment for what he did last year. I don't think I have anything left to give in this marriage. What should I do?