WTF? Are you so miserable in your own fucked up marriage that you have to try and ruin one that is actually working for the most part? Last thing my DH needs to worry about while trying to get work is someone trying to start shit.
And for the record, the only times I've left the house were to go retrieve my jacket from work, take DD to my mawmaw's house, and take the dog for a much needed walk. I would NEVER in a million years cheat on my DH.
Advice on how to handle the friend?